Soo I've gotten myself into a bit of a pickle. It's happened before, and I don't know how to keep it from happening.
I love my boyfriend very much, but I only see him on weekends, so I'm basically alone the majority of the time. This pulls my focus away from him and towards other guys, and this worries me because it wouldn't be worth it for me to screw up something so great for almost nothing. It seems like it's going to be like this for a while now, at least until I go to college. Then the separation might be even more, and the temptation will be even more...
I'll get these very minor crushes on boys and I'll wonder about "What would happen if..." situations. I'll compare them to my boyfriend and think of all the ways that they're better than he is, but when I'm with him I only think of ways that he is so much more awesome than they are. Help!
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Don't stress out about it. EVERYONE does this, especially when relationships start getting more serious and/or problems, such as distance, rock the boat. Realistically, the only thing you can do is when you're with him remember all the reasons you (fell in) love (with) him and remind yourself of these when he's not there. If your relationship is going as well as you imply, then I'm sure he loves you too, but there's virtually no way he can show you how much he loves you if he can't see you all week...that's just how things work. But if you just keep reminding yourself of the good and know (even if you don't feel it) that he loves you....well....it'll make a crappy situation a little less crappy....but distance always sucks.
best of luck
muchlove
-Lenny
@sheepthatsblack@xanga - Thank you for that :]